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OogieBoogie · F
Thats becuase men talk to other men about it....and men as a whole feel uncomfortable with feelings - so they joke them away.
And men try once , get shut down , and they close down .
The right people WILL listen, its just the wrongs ones who wont .
Personally, as a partner, ive been irrecoverably damaged by a mans need to hide his demons and failures.
I was blown away to find out what he had been hiding and not shared the burden of .
A decade later i got to understand his random anger , blame and outburts and violence from the burden he carried .
But it was a decade too late .
You have to speak up .
....and try again
......and again ,and again till you are heard .
life isnt easy . Sometimes you need to shout to be heard .
And you need to do it more than once.🤷♀️
And men try once , get shut down , and they close down .
The right people WILL listen, its just the wrongs ones who wont .
Personally, as a partner, ive been irrecoverably damaged by a mans need to hide his demons and failures.
I was blown away to find out what he had been hiding and not shared the burden of .
A decade later i got to understand his random anger , blame and outburts and violence from the burden he carried .
But it was a decade too late .
You have to speak up .
....and try again
......and again ,and again till you are heard .
life isnt easy . Sometimes you need to shout to be heard .
And you need to do it more than once.🤷♀️
OogieBoogie · F
@fun4us2b men need to feel safe in their feelings.
Even with the societal changes , men still ridicule other men for being open or vulnerable.
Shit ....ive seen women ridicule men.
Its wrong.
We are human. We feel , we break , we fail .
But with just one person believing in us despite our fears, we can get back up again.
Yet men are shot down , and abused for any vulnerability. I
No wonder they hide it.
Even with the societal changes , men still ridicule other men for being open or vulnerable.
Shit ....ive seen women ridicule men.
Its wrong.
We are human. We feel , we break , we fail .
But with just one person believing in us despite our fears, we can get back up again.
Yet men are shot down , and abused for any vulnerability. I
No wonder they hide it.