Be honest…. How many of you have been able to achieve this with poise, grace, elegance, suave….?

The last couple of times I’ve somehow been able to Scarlet O’Hara my way into a guy just giving me the one he just pulled out. It’s a superpower I didn’t even know I possessed. But normally I take it on like a magician approaches pulling a tablecloth off a table without disturbing the dishes on it. Same stance. Same silent prayer. Same whip. And a “ta da!” when it actually works.