Whelp… just had a total breakdown/flip out

Everything too much at once

I just can’t deal with the overall disrespect and lack of empathy from my husband lately. He is obsessed lately with these rooms with free “give aways”online. It’s like all he does when he is home… and he wants to tell me about them and show me the 500 million packages he gets which is even more shit we don’t need in our home.

I’m sad and lonely and completely disregarded

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JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

My wife went through a hoarding buying phase. It was very challenging

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

@JimboSaturn I’m done.

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

@WaryWitchWandering I hated having to be the nagging negative person dealing with all the clutter and waste

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

@JimboSaturn he collects video games and retro toys… and it overfills what was supposed to be the kids playroom in the basement… and they aren’t allowed to touch any of it … and now it’s getting to the point he’s winning shit he doesn’t even need or collect yet it feeds his weird addiction

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

@JimboSaturn not to mention so much work needs to be done on our home, and I can only do so much alone

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

@JimboSaturn feels like a fucking dump in here

And I feel disrespected and disregarded

All around just so tired and sad and even angry

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

@WaryWitchWandering oh god. fuck I hate that shit lol It looks so junky. deeps breaths deeo breaths ooohhhmmm

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

@WaryWitchWandering Yea he needs to respect the rest of the family. You just can't do anything you want when you are in a relationship

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

@JimboSaturn he never understood that

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

@WaryWitchWandering My wife used to go to second hand stores and buy shirts. Probably had 500 at one point. She is the kind of person who buys 7 bottles of sunscreen to go to the beach; drives me fucking nuts

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

@JimboSaturn Fortunately she has changed. I am a minimalist so she really drove me nuts for a while

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

@WaryWitchWandering Well a conversation is needed. Sucks though I hate conflict

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

@JimboSaturn tried it… and he doesn’t seem to see an issue and I am just being crazy

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

@WaryWitchWandering I don't think he is trying to disrespect you. He needs to listen to your needs regardless of what he feels about them. He needs a chat with an older married guy like him to set him straight lol

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

@WaryWitchWandering fucking annoying