How do I satisfy the need for my mom to be happy for me?

How do I satisfy the need for my mom to be happy for the fact that I have a kid? She hates kids, I live with her because my child is 19 months and I do not work so I can not afford to move out. I just have this desire that my mom will at least not hate children around me and my child. She says things like people reproduce like rats, she treats children like they are toys or dolls to dress up. I dont know if thats how she felt when I was born but i was planned. I dont remember her disliking kids when I was a kid but I love my mom so much I must have not been paying attention. This all started when I was around 13 or so I think it was the summer between middle and highschool, I was at the outdoor and I asked her why she does not tell me she loves me anymore. She said because no one really knows what love is. Its a weird answer it kind of hurt. I wish I can let go of this hurt from back then. How do I get over these negative things she says? I would hope that if I could find a mom friend who would get exited with me it would get me over this but I dont know anyone like that at least in person.