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I Am Mourning the Loss of a True Friendship

One of my first few close friends on EP....and although our friendship is only 2 months old, I truly believed that this person is so genuine and felt a closeness that I never felt before. But looking back, I feel I should have acted more maturely and not taken anyone's words so seriously. I have learnt my lesson and hopefully it will show in my current and future interactions with my friends here on EP.

I do wish that things were as beautiful as they seem to be on the outside. But its a crooked world and everyone is here on their own....

I really appreciate my friends to be open and outspoken, and as honest as I am with them. How can one fake his feelings and things about himself, is beyond my understanding.

I have also been here without disclosing my identity but still there are a few things I cant do. That is, lie about who I am as a person. How can someone be so fake and act so genuine?

I just want to say one thing to those people, who feed on other peoples feelings and they know they are taking advantage of someones trust and friendship, that its a small world and its round! O
What you do to others will one day happen to you...and when it does, I hope you get it ten times worse than you deserved.
And please find someone fake enough to suit you, please spare us who are here to make true friends. It was nice knowing you or whoever it was, that you pretended to be!!! :'(
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SuperFisherMan
If you've read my profile you will know a great deal about me. I'm so happily married I just can't believe how luck I've been my entire life. I have many interest some of which I haven't even gotten to yet. I know that we are friends already I just want you to know that I'm real and I'm full of all kinds of emotions and I'm a happy camper. I also wish I could make everyone as happy as I am.
Santi96 · 26-30
Sure, SFM! I know I have found a true friend in you. And I can always discuss my worries with you, its nice to have you around!:) Havent read all of your posts but i'm getting there! LOL :) Cheers and have a nice weekend, you happy camper!! :D
SuperFisherMan
You as well young lady. May the sun rise upon you and yours and warm your hearts as well as your body. May the moon rise to give you and yours a restful nights sleep and may you and yours enjoy life to its fullest. Life's way to short to do anything less.
Santi96 · 26-30
Such a beautiful blessing from a kind-hearted soul!! Thank you, W!! I will surely come back and read this poetic blessing whenever I feel low. Hugs XXX :)
RebelLynx
Hey I kinda understand you're frustration but don't give up on everyone because of one person, there are still genuine people out there. Lol, but yeah I'm here on ep, iust to make friends, I love meeting and talking to new people. : )
RebelLynx
Thanks, hope we can be friends then, lol. :)
Santi96 · 26-30
Yah!! Fingers crossed...LOL :))
RebelLynx
Cool, lol. Do you mind if we chat, msg me if you're interested? : )
Grantor9
This can happen and I do see where your coming from. Sometimes others have their own very good reasons and feel they can't say the goodbyes and close the door... It's not necessarily personal, it's just their way of dealing with it all.
Santi96 · 26-30
Well, I have been very patient with this particular individual in the past too. I understand and totally agree with you that everybody is different. But in this particular case, its more of a I-dont-care-a-hoot attitude that really annoyed me. He knows that I do care about him and a few of my very close friends here. So, its only intentional to ignore my concern for him. I feel, if a person is shy, then he is shy. But if a person acts like he cares, then he should at least respond with a 'Hey, I'm back!'...whether he wants to say goodbye or not, this is just a common courtesy that one should have.
tom67890
Karma is a myth so don't bother thinking they will get back as they have given out.
I just see people like me often afraid to be genuine .It takes more wisdom and courage to be humble in life than to be unapologetic and proud ,bragging about ones self.
Victimizers are often people that have been victimized themselves,The only thing someone can do here is insult you're ego . Screw that it isn't who you are .
Santi96 · 26-30
So true...you know me well! :) I felt the same, afraid to be genuine, but then a wise friend advised me to be prepared for disappointments, and not change oneself. Rather move on, and keep looking. I do believe in Karma though, I have seen it work, it takes time but it happens. Thanks for your kind words, my friend. Hugs XX

 
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