what can you do if your looks are just 'not there' anymore

[c=BF0080][i]i get told off my elderly parents that i'm still a handsome man but i feel that my looks are just not there anymore...ive put on weight again, around my belly...i'm bald and when i don't shave and have growth, i look terrible, my looks are definitely not there then...i always have to shave to look ok..

all i want is to find a girlfriend and some to accept me how i am.....but if my looks are 'not there' how will i?[/i][/c]