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What does it mean if a guy initiates eye contact and continues to hold it after you break it and then look back?

For context: We know each other, but haven't seen each other in a couple of years. We both happened to be at a decently crowded event and I happened to glance over and find him looking at me from across the room. He didn't have much of an expression on his face, but seemed to be staring intently into my eyes, enough that I found it a bit intimidating. I broke eye contact for a second or two, then looked back and he was still looking directly at me. I broke eye contact again because someone started talking to me and am not sure if he still looked after that, and I didn't see him again that night (the event was ending).

Does this mean anything or just a coincidence?
SW-User
I’d find it a form of aggression. Especially if I was awkward about it and he could tell but continue to not look away.
could have been a manikin,,
@jackrabbit10 she was checking it out lol
Best to ask him.

It's often an indiction of interest. Sometimes the woman will initiate it, sometimes the male.
I've only ever encountered it with strangers in public. No one I knew, unfortunately.

Including one woman who left her confused friends getting off our subway car, and took my exit instead to stay close on the escalator 😂It was kinda cool.
If all he does is stare….
Like .. is he gunna say hello?
Tobasco · 31-35, F
anonnn777 · F
@Tobasco I would but have no contact info for him lol
Tobasco · 31-35, F
@anonnn777 then it means absolutely nothing
Deceased · M
Hmm. This could be seen as a red flag for sure. Just keep your guard up and if you get any feelings like you're being watched or that your personal safety is in jeopardy; listen to them. Thats the best advice I can give.
butterflybaby75 · 46-50, F
He likes you in some way. I'm not great with eye contact situations but usually if the other person smiles and I can muster a smile too it's a good thing and might mean something nice it about to happen.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Could be anything. Could be he was just trying to place where he knew you. And couldn't figure out where. 🤷🏻‍♂️
SW-User
It was probably a staring contest and he kicked your butt not once but twice!
Sevendays · M
You could remind him of someone he knew in a past life.
Disguised · 56-60, M
Could just mean you had a big splat of paint on your forehead.
lpthehermit · 56-60, M
it could mean...are you who i think you are?? or i should know her
They've lost their glasses
Blondily · F
Probably checking you out.
He finds you attractive
He might’ve been stoned
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
He probably wonder why you're looking so he's looking back.
anonnn777 · F
@Queendragonfly I noticed him looking at me first, otherwise I would agree.
RedBaron · M
It does. Unless, of course, it doesn’t.
PoeticPlay · 51-55, M
Rather than asking strangers on the Internet, ask the relevant party (him)

Endless speculations by others are never useful in these situations, ever
anonnn777 · F
@BlueGreenGrey I would but have no contact info for him lol
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The only who would know is [b]him[/b]. Anyone else’s guess would be as valid as your own.
MonaMartinez86 · 36-40, F
A waste of your life don’t even bother with that

 
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