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Ever feel like the odd man out?

I’m at a party where everyone knows each other but me. I’m the newbie. No one really wants to interact with me. I’ve tried. I’m a very social person. It’s literally my day job to be social. But here I am on the outskirts not feeling like I belong. And the guy I’ve been dating just left me behind. Hasn’t checked on me in more than an hour. So I’m sitting in the hatchback of my car drinking alone. Maybe I’m not as social as I thought.
You drove yourself there… you should have left and found a party where you would be appreciated.

The people at this party sound lame… not wanting to include a newbie.


The guy you’ve been dating doesn’t deserve you.

This is just my opinion…
Confined · 56-60, M
I was supposed to go out tonight. I know when in a crowd probably no one will talk to me. Every one has their clicks and partners already. Happier on the couch tonight.
Carissimi · F
I hope you don’t date him again.
Whyme · 46-50, M
Thats life for some of us
robb65 · 56-60, M
It takes me a while to warm up to people I don't know. The last time I was in that position was a friends adversary party where I knew a few of the people but there were a good many I didn't. I was alone more or less, my son was with me but he was hanging with some other kids his age,
My friend was already about drunk when I got there and it went down hill after that. So I mostly sat by myself, having a beer or two, listening to the music and trying to follow conversations that I was having trouble hearing clearly (some were amusing, they had interesting friends). I didn't mind so much, I had been stuck at the house for a while and really needed to get away from everything, even if that meant going to a party that I normally would not have gone to.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
No I get that intensely. I am very social and outgoing and good at parties but if if nobody like - steps a little bit to the left so I can join a circle to talk with people or introduce and talk with me, I shut down and become extremely shy and anxious.

It sucks. I k now exactly what you're going through.
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
Me in every public situation ever

That really sucks
I’d be clinging to the one person I knew in this situation and I’m sorry your the guy you’ve been seeing isn’t by your side right now
Boleuskas · M
Happend to me couple times when I was living in Spain, at the time I didn know any Spanish, so i was feeling odd for few months. People arround me are talking and i dont have a clue about what
braveheart21 · 61-69, M
The guy is a fool... He should be showing you off to the whole crowd letting them know how proud and happy to duch a beautiful woman at his side..... 🤗🤗🤗🤗
I felt like that at the baptism of my god daughter was not fun i talk some but not much ya when that happens to me i get the fk out of there fassst
You just weren’t feeling the vibe or what? Were they just a bunch of youngins…?

I blame your date for making you feel like you didn’t belong…🤣
Sorry for the late response, but the guy you were dating doesn't sound worthy of you. Hope things are better now.
Whyme · 46-50, M
How ya doing now ?
Whyme · 46-50, M
@ProdigalSummer i didnt know you were into that but not suprised yer a looker
@Whyme eh, I wouldn’t say I’m into it. Curious is about as far as it goes. But the inevitable drama made it real easy to say no lol
Whyme · 46-50, M
@ProdigalSummer each to there own i couldnt i dont like to share and surely wouldnt enjoy watching someone else drill my partner
fun4us2b · M
Dang that can't be true....there's more than one person that wants to hang with you...give them an opening....
in10RjFox · M
Just drop your out skirt .. and you can become the centre of gravity for the party.😜
@in10RjFox @in10RjFox shes not that kind of gal .....
Scribbles · 36-40, F
Sometimes it's just a bad party. Don't worry about it.
bookerdana · M
Or maybe you should just leave em in the dust..finish drinking at home
SW-User
Yeah🥺
And uh, the guy you’re dating is a turd
time to get the F out of there !!! what bunch of beep
Selah ·
I hate seeing people get left out.
Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
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Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
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Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
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JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
Yep. It's the people. I have lived in a place for more than a decade. Not one friend. I tried. ..they acted as if i spoke another language. I love meeting people never had an issue before.
@JaggedLittlePill same here cant wait leave this beeep town im in
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Yow, bf left you alone? Not cool. I can't imagine someone doing that to you.
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MethDozer · M
Been there
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