I just cant seem to connect with people.

I understand that very well.

I have been an outsider for most of my life,
never fit in the cliques, was not a popular girl, but that's here, back home I was :D

And these days, the more time goes by, the less IGAF ;)

However, I can connect with the 'right' people, and connect in lovely ways, but, they are few and far between.

Keep on being YOU, shining your own light dancing to your own Tune.
And your tribe is out here, head up, nose a carrot (Russian Idiom ;) )

If you want an incredible (inspiring and bad azz) TV show, and it's one of a kind, try SENSE8, but give it a few episodes to 'get it', I was impressed, I am not easily impressed.

When you find yourself feeling like that, first know that you are not dumb! If your like me your quiet and shy and people like that make me go into my shell even more. I look online or in the library for self help stuff. Or at the bookstore. I often find stuff to help me too! I feel certain that you will find some helpful things!😊

No it's probably not you, there's many reasons why. Work is kind of a tough area to get friends, I've never made friends at work and when I did make one or two, if there was any drama, it became like high school.