I Am Very Selective When It Comes to Letting People Get Close

I'm very quick to write people off. I can usually tell within the first five minutes of meeting someone if they're worth my time. It sounds awful and people keep telling me to stop doing that but to me, it's just easier than taking the time to get to know them and then find out I was right in the first place.

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KellyBear · 41-45, F

@olderguy: sometimes it is hard to tell yes sure, and sometimes it's crystalclear within the first minutes if I will get along with that person or not. It really depends on ourselves and the person we have in front of us. Some ppl have masks that they hide very well sometimes, I don't always see through it, and with some ppl you have this instant...click/match (or how do you say this in English lol).

But I for sure agree with making a selection and act on it. The speed....depends :-)