I Am Very Selective When It Comes to Letting People Get Close

Some people, though with the best of their intentions, are simply not ready to deal with others emotions and realities.

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SW-User

I'm like that... I often mean well, like I'm welling to help but words fail me sometimes.

ddreamer77 · 31-35, M

I believe it's ok to not know what to say, really. It's not ok to be let in and boss someone on how they should feel, or what they should do. People don't always need a solution, especially from someone who just listened for 3 minutes and think they know all about what you're going through. You know what i mean?

SW-User

Yeah. Sometimes you don't need a lecture, you just need a hug.

ddreamer77 · 31-35, M

@MissNotes: A world with less lectures and more hugs sounds awesome.

SW-User

Indeed :) We should probably stop putting a too much thought into every damn thing, and just let the emotion flow.