I Am Very Selective When It Comes to Letting People Get Close

I came out of the closet and at first all of my straight guy friends were very supportive. As time went on some quit responding to texts and calls, some came up with excuses to not hang out and before I knew it I was ghosted. These guys were my best friends at one time. I talked to these people almost everyday, hung with them a lot, partied, normal stuff. I just wish I had a straight guy friend to talk to about guy stuff. Someone who doesn’t care about my sexuality. I was in the closet for a long time and have been with women. I’ve been with more women than I have men. I’m just not romantically interested in women. Me being with women has also turned some gay friends away. It’s aggravating. No, im not looking for anything other than a friend and no I won’t hit on you. Lol Just looking for a bud. Someone around my age preferably. 29/m