I was really good friends with a girl on here

We chatted for a long time and really helped each other I think. One day she read some of my older posts and she decided that she didn’t like me.
I miss her loads, but it’s important that I leave the posts up that make me look not so good as I want to be honest. I miss her though.

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Punches · 46-50, F

Young females are traumatized by pretty much everything. They seek out anything to be triggered over.

It would probably be best to not have bully posts on social media. Men your age are already having to walk on eggshells for the women your age. No need to give them an excuse to be triggered. Not like they cannot find something but at least make them work for it.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

I do get you, but I suppose I just want to be honest on here about who I am. It really hurts when people don’t like me but it does feel lovely when people can still be my friend. @Punches

Punches · 46-50, F

@Strongtea Good intentions for sure with wanting to be honest.

Unfortunately we often have to lie, or at least keep some things hidden, in order to have friends, get a job, stay out of trouble...

You do not have to fabricate a fake persona like the most popular members on here do (and are eventually found out), but no need to divulge things from the past that no longer matter.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Ok, thanks for that. I have questioned whether I’m a bit too honest on here. I may talk about different things in future and have a think about what’s on my profile. @Punches