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It's been a rough year or summer

Before my trip, I had my best friend's gf reach out to me for help because she claimed was in danger. I helped her found a place to stay, just to realize she changed her mind. She had a long talk with my bestfriend, and I feel disappointed in him for causing something abusive that would make her feel unsafe. I know he going through unaliving ideation too all because of CFS. I decided to no longer interact because this was not the first time they cried for help from either or both of them. I'm exhausted for always, constantly helping them. For once, I felt free, after blocking them.
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GoFish ·
thats too bad 😐
@GoFish it's not what i wanted, but they keep piling more work for me that it becomes unrealistically selfish of them.
GoFish ·
@CosplayMew yeah i agree 😐
Sometimes you have to just cut a player coach...
@CosplayMew some problems people need to go to professionals for and not dump on others.
@DeadOrbit i been saying the same, maybe this time they will listen without relying on me
@CosplayMew yeah lets hope so
Ben1000 · 41-45, M
Always put yourself first no one else is going to.
When I read on here how much people put themselves out for others it puts me to shame.
I just drift through life focusing on myself and dealing with my own shit, I’ve had a few people try to use me and bring me down but now I just jog them on as it’s not my problem.
@Ben1000 i been facing the same with being used and dragged down, just recently. Also, them trying to justify it being correct. I will selectively help people and learned to not give so much.
Ben1000 · 41-45, M
@CosplayMew definitely you gotta make sure your ok first before worrying about everyone else, my brother proper fucked me over, now I don’t answer the phone, simples.
My girlfriend does tell me I should try and do more for my family and friends.
maybe 🤔
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
You have to put yourself first
You did what you could
@JRVanguard I'm so tired, honestly. I've been here for the best friend just to watch him make mistakes and honestly i just can't be around anymore.
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
@CosplayMew And then that starts stealing your energy too
Which isn’t fair to you
You tried to help and they didn’t take it and that’s all you can do
Good job
Proud of you💙

 
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