Is it something wrong with the group of people i come across or something wrong with me?

I often came across such groups when i tried to make friends, where one person who is popular tend to target and bully or take frustrations on new comers or people in vulnerable positions ( i have been in that position) or the ones they dislike and others encourage him/her , engage along with him/her and even make excuses for that person's bad behvaiours and if i tell them about his/her bad behaviours, they blame me for his/her behaviour or tell me that i am being over-sensitive for something so small and not a big deal.

Is it because the problem is with me bcuz this is the way life is?

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Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

People are popular in their own groups, but across the whole site is a different story.
Best to not worry about the unfriendly and just interact with more pleasant peeps.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@Justmeraeagain no, not this site.... I'm talking about my past experiences with making friends in other places

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

@sahi81 okay

Bowenw · 61-69, M

It sounds like a dysfunctional group.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@Bowenw they sounded just like my granny 😅 , when i told her about my father being mean, she said "being a girl u r acting this prideful and angry, being a man how much prideful he will be than u, learn to adjust and tolerate "

i hope i come across better people in my future.

Such type people seem to have no such thing as personal right or wrong, they seem to support whatever majority, in power or the popular ones do.

Bowenw · 61-69, M

@sahi81 It is true that a lot of people follow the crowd and are afraid to rock the boat regardless of how wrong a situation is. These are the same people that are yes-men with their boss at work.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@Bowenw unless he is overly dependent on that job and no other job he can get, idk why he needs to be a yes -man 😅

The people i told, they weren't dependent on the person.

SStarfish ·

No they are just mean and inconsiderate..

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sahi81 · 22-25, F

@Alhamdulillah why do some people hurt others just because they are lesser than them. I can't understand such people, I never bullied anyone whom I perceived as inferior.

Do u have any idea why

Alhamdulillah · F

@sahi81 you wont believe me when i say this, but its 'fear'. they know deepdown that the people they hurt and bully are much better people than they will ever be 👍💪

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