Making an impression... are you as real as you say you are?

Funny isn't it. For someone who's outwardly not shy, yet inwardly terrified of making the right impression, to come online to a place theoretically designed to make it easier to meet people, making the right impression is, once again, bloody hard! And look at the current Online list - like, 90% male, and 10% female - and of those, how many are actually blokes in disguise? I do wonder... Would a poll help? (I think Polls are anonymous?!)