this saying that if they care about you they'll make time for you may be is true like mo no friends but all those classmates I wondered why I'm always

the first one to connect and text but never them, apparently we all are busy in own lives so ok still may be I should never expect & get hurt by such small things, at the end just none cares so better should stop caring 🤷‍♀️

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joahola98wj · 36-40, F

Are you always available to them? Are you busy living your life? Do you open up to them slowly? Are you genuinely curious about them? If you're trying to be friends with them because you think you can only be happy if they want to be friends with you, then they won't want to be friends with you. They'll be the first to reach out and they'll make time to spend time with you if they're curious about you. They'll care if you care first. It's the same the other way around. If they're curious about you, they make time to spend time with you, and they reach out first, then you'll want to be friends with them, you'll be curious about them, you'll make time to spend time with them, and you'll reach out first.

Raaii · 22-25, F

@joahola98wj I always tried to stay available to anyone and ofcourse I cared, I was curious too so I tried to reaching out but when I noticed they all just avoid and if someone is asking that's only for their benefit, they don't care if I'm ok , I really can't describe in short but now I've distanced myself from all class/college/coaching mates like I still wonder sometimes about some, I think about class pastimes but I really have no energy to try to connect from my side

joahola98wj · 36-40, F

@Raaii Be available to them sometimes and be busy living your life. They'll reciprocate reaching out and connecting with you if you're reaching out and connecting with them without expecting a result. When you are genuinely enjoying your time with them without being desperate for their approval or validation, your interactions with them will be filled with joy instead of worrying that they won't accept your friendship.

Raaii · 22-25, F

@joahola98wj sorry
I've sorted out
I'm not desperate for anyone's validation
Atleast not anymore
And I feel I'm not necessary anyway
May be I'm the worst person
I was never that clingy
I see there's no reason to contact out of nowhere too

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

You are into wrong crowds. Also don't expect school students to reply you all the time. Make good friends whom you can talk for real.

Raaii · 22-25, F

@littlepuppywantanewlife I didn't mean classmates just from school though it's ok anyway

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@Raaii hope you make more good friends.

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