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I’m struggling

I have a friend whom the family does not like to have hang around because he shows up when my family is in town and right before dinner time. It’s odd. I agree. He’s also a little special. As in how does he not understand that he’s not invited to dinner?

I’m usually loyal to people who love me. He knows this. But it makes my family feel awkward. I’m not sure what to do. I feel stupid. I care for him but my sister does not. Which is ironic. She calls him an opportunistic person. Ultimately, I believe he just want fee as if he is part of a family. Truly I’m torn because Christmas is about welcoming those who have no where to go metaphorically speaking.

If you are a compassionate soul, please help me.
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RubySoo · 56-60, F
I would feel like you do. But to others it would no doubt look like hes turning up at times when he may get something out of it!
Mindful · 56-60, F
@RubySoo and in my mind, what wrong with giving a little?
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@Mindful i understand. But they will see it that he is taking advantage of your kindness and good nature. Ive been there so many times and had others say....he/shes taking advantage, using you and i couldnt see it that way.
But....in hindsight....they were often right.