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Why do men only befriend you if they think they can form a romantic relationship with you?

Why do they though?
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Eternity26-30, M
Full disclosure: sex is a pretty big box to tick for men.

If you really really want a male friend but dont want to have sex with him, best thing for you to do is hook him up with one of your friends or some girl you know.

That way even though you wont be a [i]direct[/i] source of sex for him he can still get sex from you by-proxy.

Thereby validating your friendship.

Sucks to say but men can be friends with men and animals. There is no real reason to be friends with women (barring family members....hopefully) because any woman that you like enough to be friends with you will eventually want to fuck unless she is hella unattractive to you. Not to mention that a lot of women do not like men they want having close female friends. So being your friend can actually harm their sexual prospects elsewhere.

You can say anything you want about what I've said but you can't say it isnt true.

TL;DR: if you really really just want male friends then try being a bro and helping them get laid 馃憤馃徏
janicemegan18-21, F
@Eternity That sounds like shit
Eternity26-30, M
@janicemegan well its a fact of life.

People have a kneejerk reaction to stuff stated this blatantly, but i swear to god if you cross reference your experiences as you go through life with the experiences of other women in similar situations, and then ask some men to boot, you will find that this is roughly what is going on.

Most people just wont be this honest about it
Teirdalin31-35
It's a good theory, but guys are friends with girls on occasion without that too. Mostly only if they can have decent conversations together or have an activity they like to do together such as gaming though.
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janicemegan18-21, F
@Teirdalin lmao then why?