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Is it rude to ask someone if they're having a better morning?

If they mentioned having a grumpy one the day before?

I mean this person pretty much ignored my question then ignored me the rest of the day!


People are weird!

I thought it was nice remembering that they had a bad day the day before.
I don’t think it’s rude, it indicates you were paying attention to what they told you before. Of course, there’s how one asks: "Are things better today ?" might get a more positive response than, say, "Are you still in a bad mood ?" 😅
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@bijouxbroussard I think he's just a d*ck I mean. He mentioned that the self serve kiosks in a supermarket was rubbish and didn't work properly the day before hence my question.
He just swerved me!
SilkenMist · 46-50, F
That question would come off as snarky no matter what tone was used.

It would just have the same vibe as asking someone if they are having a good time when they are shoveling horse manure.

Maybe you meant well by asking but such questions just go over like backhanded compliments.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@SilkenMist thank you...

I will tread a little more carefully today.
Wasn't meant to be snarky at all.
SilkenMist · 46-50, F
@Mellowgirl Sometimes it is hard to know how to approach things.
Although if a self checkout machine had ruined his entire day, he might have anger issues.
akindheart · 61-69, F
nothing wrong with that at all.
Thereyouare · 56-60, M
@akindheart You have always had such a kind soal
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Thereyouare you made my day. you did. and thank you
That was thoughtful of you…
craig7 · 70-79, M
Yes,that's nice,though probably best to ask a more general question,like "How are you" or "How are things" - something along those lines,without suggesting too direct a link to the way that they were previously feeling.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@craig7 you see I try to tailor the question to the person when I know something specific because they all arrive at the same time and I ask how are you today about 30x... But I hear you...
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
Seems like reasonable question to ask them. unless you're saying it sarcastically 🤣
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@SarithBorn nah I ain't, he's weird
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
@Mellowgirl Yeah he weird. 😇
TeirdalinFirefall · 26-30, M
I ask people that too if they had a previous bad whatever.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@TeirdalinFirefall I thought It was fine but clearly he didn't find it a nice question to ask. i find him rather rude anyways.
I've only ever tried to be nice to him and others.
I guess you just can't please all of the people all of the time!
Dino11 · M
Only before their first cup of coffee...😅

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Dino11 fair enough
Iwillwait · M
I am better.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Iwillwait glad to hear it.
Bully, much?
It's probably pretty safe for you there, in the team of bullies all laughing.
Stereoguy · 56-60, M
It's not rude at all. Just having someone care is very nice in my book. 🙂
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Stereoguy guess he's just a d*ck then!
Stereoguy · 56-60, M
@Mellowgirl I would definitely say so. ☹️
iamonfire696 · 36-40, F
I think it’s okay, shows you care and we’re paying attention.

 
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