I don't get it why do shitty things happen to good people? I'm not just speaking from myself here but I give my all to people and it goes unnoticed. I

Don't know why I bend over backwards for people if they don't appreciate it. I don't know maybe I should be an asshole. No I can't because I have a good heart

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SW-User

As I've learned ...only give of yourself with out expectations and just for the sake of doing good

Nutshell29 · 26-30, F

@SW-User I'm trying so hard to give myself the same treatment but I'm like so out of touch with myself I feel like I need to focus on others

SW-User

@Nutshell29 sounds like codependency imho

Nutshell29 · 26-30, F

@SW-User it is because i have a lot of trauma

SW-User

@Nutshell29 I understand this very well myself

Nutshell29 · 26-30, F

@SW-User yeah I just cry if I'm focused on my problems so I try not to dwell but I know by avoiding it it's going to cause more pain