So tell me if any of you have experienced anything like this:

@fun4us2b I think you're absolutely right. I Think here it's a little easier because of the anonymity. I've had some great relationships here great friendships that I've had for over 10 years between EP and here. Unfortunately I have had to deal with some bad apples. And some people who have other relationships and respectfully didn't make me aware or the other person somehow found out about the app And have had to deal with a lot of the aftermath that comes with that including Threats and Wives that I didn't even know existed hunting me down. Which is why I don't want to converse with anyone who is married. Respectfully I know things can happen in a marriage Sometimes things fizzle out for a while and you seek company elsewhere in all its forms. Most people think I can get away with it and they do. But there are The Times when they get caught and the aftermath goes into things like extortion threats and even police Involvement. It's just crazy there are some people out there that can't be adults and think rationally. And there are some people out there that I've known to set up other people to extort money out of them by threatening exposure. We are here to express ourselves possibly find some kinship in our interests, Make some new friends Release some Stress whatever it is. Why can't we all just respect each Other. Think twice Before you get into something with someone knowing you have a significant other that you may hurt. It's not just you Who's going to get the aftermath.( By the way this is not all directed at you I'm just stating how I feel not everyone is a bad apple, There's still some good produce here🙃) But you hit it on the money.

@LaLumieri I think you said it all ! LOL "Good Produce" Thanks for BC !! 🙂

@WillaKissing How wonderful of you to do that not a lot of people would. It's nice that you were that kind of friend. If some of us are lucky enough to make friends beyond the screen It's a Beautiful thing. I'm sorry you have to deal with all the rude people I think all of us get a dose of it. As I've explained another post I've had a friend who was extorted Here Here Who had a specific fetish interest here. And the person interacting with him Was much younger In fact it was a few people and they were pretty smart and Somehow we're able to get clues to his identity and information and even his relatives. And they threatened him that they would leak his secret. He eventually had to tell his family everything it got so out of hand. I've had a lot of married men reach out to me. When I refuse I've had them actually come back under different profiles. But it's so telltale and I always catch it thank goodness. But there was one time I made a friend He was just a friend we had a passion for writing and that was all. And we also found each other at difficult times in our lives. We helped each other through it. Somehow his wife got wind Of our friendship and then proceeded the threatening emails and phone calls. So I no longer wish to talk to any married men I don't want to anyway I know what it's like to be the wife. People can be terrible. Maybe someday I'll put up a post of exactly what I'm looking for here

@LaLumieri Thank you for the kind reply. And best of luck with your quest for finding what you are exactly looking for.

The friends I have here well the whole dang site knows I am a 100% heterosexual cross dresser that had a successful military career. I share real life experiences, jokes, progress on projects I do on my farm, and just being me. It would take a lot of communication in PMs to gain any kind of trust for me, just because of what you wrote about your friend being black mailed. Caution and slowly building a friendship is my agenda.

Bless you though.

@Magenta I believe that's exactly it. It's just crazy how you could know someone inside and Out for so long and then they just drop into the air and then resurface a few years later.

@LaLumieri I have some other words for it but they aren't very nice.

Thank you for BC. 🌷

@Yourwildestdreams By the way I love your profile pic it's actually One of the most beautiful places I have ever seen in the dream to be able to Boat through something like that

@LaLumieri Thanks it’s beautiful no matter what the season . There are more scenic photos in my albums .😀

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