I love my friend

But....we hung out the other day and it's hard to get a word in edgewise. I have to actually interrupt her to say anything and then when I do, she pulls out her phone and starts texting and doesn't even acknowledge what I'm saying. I just don't feel like I'm important enough to anyone besides my kids and that's even starting to wane at times

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NativePortlander1970

Classic narcissism

Nebula · 41-45, F

@NativePortlander1970 you really think so?

NativePortlander1970

@Nebula Yes

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SW-User

@NativePortlander1970 y’all think everything is narcissism. Where did you get your degree in psychology?

Nebula · 41-45, F

@NativePortlander1970 how am I so blind to this? I don't get it

NativePortlander1970

@Nebula Over the years You have been conditioned to her selfishness

Nebula · 41-45, F

@NativePortlander1970 I literally dropped one friend for that a few years ago. She would call me and talk about her issues every day for hours and the one time I really needed someone to talk to she avoided me

NativePortlander1970

@Nebula Fair weather friends are the worst

Madmonk · M

@NativePortlander1970 I thought the same thing. But it’s a word that’s overused so I’m loathe to use it

NativePortlander1970

@Madmonk Which word?

Nebula · 41-45, F

@NativePortlander1970 the n word

NativePortlander1970

@Nebula I think it's the perfect word to say for your situation.

Nebula · 41-45, F

@NativePortlander1970 I dont think she is, but her kids did say that so she might be different at home. I know how that is