I Lost My Best Friend My Mother

To honour your mum, then be the best you can be for you.
To build up your worth of self.


Alcohol will make your life worse. ..not better.
If you want that drink, then do something physical to distract you. Get up and dance instead.
Do you have an Aunt or other mother figure that you can get advice from.
It sounds that you attract drama in life, then stay clear of toxic people. Recognize that this kind, are not the best to hang out with. I would opt to be alone, than hang around them.

Also, don't get into a long-term relationship, wait.....why....
In long-term relationships, we get old hurts triggered allot. At first it may seem the right move, yet in time, you both will trigger old wounds.

Find health ways to build up your worth of self, then you will make better life choices.

Your love for your mum, will still hold, never lost, still strong.

I feel for you. You know, I lost my husband at a very young age. I wasn't prepared for it. It took me a long time to grieve. I've lost my friends who didn't know what else to do with me. I lost contact with far away relatives too. But there is hope. Grieve if you must, take all the time to grieve. And then, you will see and know, you are ready to face the world again.

I didn't have the luxury to brood or medicate or drink like you're doing now. But in my solitude, I immersed myself with books, self-help/inspirational books, I began reading the bible, I just kept on praying. You know, in difficult times, unseen forces/hands are there to help us. Never lose hope. Eventually, you will see the beauty of the darkness you are in now.

Peace & Love

How did your mom pass?

Me too :(

I'm sorry , I know how special a mother is .

I lost my mother to a combination of disease and failed surgery. The pain doesn't ever leave but you just make room for it. xoxo