Is sugarcoating the truth or things in general a good reason for friends to dump you?

My former best friends were fed up with me because they said I was toxic, when we make plans, I let them do all the work and they “light a fire under my ass” to get me to help them put in the work. This one girl said I make things worse when I don’t say anything and don’t put in the effort to plan outings and my besties agreed with her. Also, when I asked for the truth and they give it to me straight, they said I scream and called them mean, unthoughtful friends sometimes and they were fed up and told me off. My female best friend called me out for not being honest about her outfit choices. She knew I wasn’t being honest. We’ll she should not have got on like that. I thought the outfit wasn’t that cute but told her it was made for her to protect her feelings. She got angry with me. They flat out told me that it’s me going on for too long and bluntly told me that they didn’t wanna be friends with me anymore because it’s too much stress, I lie to protect their feelings and they’ve been asking my older siblings for advice behind my back because they wanted honesty and it’s said they can’t get that from their own best friend. They said them hanging without me around is a lot better. I apologized so many times but they refused to reconcile the friendship. It’s been a year in a half since they dumped me. They were mean to me and picking on me.