Do you ever feel like you've outgrown your friends?

I love my friends, but recently I feel like we're growing apart. They're still heavy into the party scene, always wanting to get wasted and hook up with random guys. It's hard to have serious conversations with them. They tell me I'm boring and that I'm "changing," like that's a bad thing. Don't we all change? Is that so bad?

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Tatsumi · 31-35, M

Tends to happen in the early-mid 20s. After high school or college. The 20s are the second biggest change, after puberty. So, friends tend to drift apart easily during this time. Especially so when family and careers come into the picture, on top of changing.