Ever wonder why people leave this site and don't say goodbye?

I did leave... for over a year... but I think I did say goodbye?...

Yes I’ve had that happen a couple of times, at least leave a last message and a couple of days to say good buy

Would you like me to flash you?

Some leave and return

Who did that to you?

I do. It's like you're talking and the next day they're gone. It makes you wonder...

No point in saying goodbye to a sewer.

Plus goodbye means they're coming back

I believe, it's because we may talk to each other and claim to know each other in here but we are acquaintances in real!...Unless we get to meet a person in real the true connection is not there!...Of-course, exceptions of good virtual friendship are there!...Not everyone cares for acquaintances!...☺

This is my view-point.

Most of us are here to share ourselves with others because somewhere along the line, we do not have the 'one' with whom we may share everything. Even if we have that 'one' in our life; yet, we need a corner to vent the feelings that we don't feel like sharing it with that individual!...☺

Be happy, keep talking to the person till the time he/she is talking to you. A chapter does end at some point; so does the book!...☺

Some simply end up having their accounts deleted and haven't the opportunity to say goodbye. Others were fakes. And some just flee

It surely would be nice if they said bye to their friends they frequently PM with.

No. What is the purpose to that? Most come back anyway. Even IF a different profile.

I suppose they have their reasons. But a goodbye to friends would be respectful.

Maybe their internet got cut off. Tough times for many

Happens everyday 🤔

I think there are a number of reasons people leave without a good bye.. I try not to put too much stock in it. I know I have done it myself.. either a phone call or a visitor. could be anything.. really.. and by the time you come back the person is gone.. or like me, I do a lot when at work and I can only talk on breaks.. so I'm apt to leave without a goodbye as I need to leave at certain times and I get too busy talking to keep track of time.. and before you know it.. my break is over :).

I left, but said goodbye to my friends. I left because it was getting boring, and I needed a break. Back because I missed the weirdness.

not really but some lose their phones.computors,internet have to move or a death

cos some of the othr users give them a hard time, makes u just leave

Not so much about this site....since this is my first day on SW. But I have wondered about that on other sites. After a while though, I decided not to take it personally. I figured they just need an itch to scratch elsewhere. Although it's still sad.

Their not attached to any one here or use this place as a stepping stone to find someone

I find it unacceptable if we have connected on any level.

Im getting ready to leave. It is important to say goodbye?

No I have some good thoughts or hunches on why most people leave here

they were never taught good manners. only takes a second . or post a general comment under posts or on profile and then suspend account before deleting it. but i am not suprised too many on this site are so rude in their language. we all have likes and dislikes, many might be a bit kinky like me,but that is no reason to be impolite

Because they feel like that not connected with anyone

some people are like that. They just jump ship, sorta speak

Some ppl dont find it necessary to say goodbye

They don't feel a connection with anyone

Because people are asses at times

Can't figure it out

I did the first time I joined, there really wasn't anything going on and thensite was new and poorly run. I've been told that it has improve so I'm trying again. This time I will say goodbye if I choose to leave again.

Just how it is

not really

I do wonder. I don't know if they lose interest, get caught saying things they shouldn't, or just run away for no reason at all.

There maybe circumstances under which it may not have been possible to say bye. Am sure no one wants to leave like that.

I do tht

I find it hard when people cut off communications without letting me know why. Disappearing can be hurtful for people who care.

Perhaps they just feel guilty. Perhaps they feel out of control. Perhaps they feel turned on so much in here, but in real life ignored by spouse, and feel too frustrated.

No

I guess its easier for person leaving but hurts like hell for persons or people they connected with that are still here

Because they are not honest about how they present themselves on here. They probably go into a phase of depression.

not sure....just noticing you hadn't left a note since last March? Btw, nice cleavage....is it actually yours or....

They had no connection with anyone would be my guess

i'm in and out a lot, it's been months due to work...but the past week or two i've been popping in from time to time.

yes..a good friend of mine just packed up and left