Do you ever look up old friends/lovers?

During the past 6 months, I've looked up 3 guys that I used to date, and haven't spoken to in many years, only to find their obituaries. It's not that I wanted to reconnect -- I was just curious about where they may be in this stage of life.

Now I know.

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JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M

I had a crush on a woman once. But she had a girlfriend at the time. Later, she had a boyfriend. In between I professed my love for her but she declined it.

Twenty years later I found her on Facebook. She was still cute. She had married a different man, and had kids. I did not contact her, though.