How do I even bring this up?
I have a “friend”. Never once have we ever argued or been enemies. Every interaction we’ve ever had has been either joyful, playful, or at least respectful (but serious).
Here’s the problem. The only time I ever see her anymore is at the restaurant where she works, with me as her customer. She tells me her work dates/times and asks me to come back.
She’s told me numerous times “I’ll unblock you on Snapchat” (whole other story; and no, I don’t press her to do it—she brings it up) but she never has.
So, I get the impression she just wants to see me for the tips because I always tip my servers, like, 50-100%.
For awhile I just stopped showing up at her work but it still bugs me. I want to bring this up to her and get closure. I just don’t know how, without it sounding harsh and getting her angry.
FYI I am aware that she may just want to keep us as work friends (well, HER work) but that’s not what she says. I want it to be clear.
Please pay attention to the details before you criticize me, Internet. 🙄
Here’s the problem. The only time I ever see her anymore is at the restaurant where she works, with me as her customer. She tells me her work dates/times and asks me to come back.
She’s told me numerous times “I’ll unblock you on Snapchat” (whole other story; and no, I don’t press her to do it—she brings it up) but she never has.
So, I get the impression she just wants to see me for the tips because I always tip my servers, like, 50-100%.
For awhile I just stopped showing up at her work but it still bugs me. I want to bring this up to her and get closure. I just don’t know how, without it sounding harsh and getting her angry.
FYI I am aware that she may just want to keep us as work friends (well, HER work) but that’s not what she says. I want it to be clear.
Please pay attention to the details before you criticize me, Internet. 🙄
