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What do you do with someone who won’t stop venting to you?

She literally won’t shut up about this relationship problem and is repeating herself over and over again and she ignores everything I say even if I tell her not to
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Tatsumi · 31-35, M
State break. A concept that will serve you very well. Say something utterly ridiculous or humerous to throw her off her balance and "break" her bitching-mode "state", then she will be more likely to shift gears. Invaluable skill that I need to work more on.

I've found it's pretty difficult, though, because you have to wrestle with your ego to do it. And you have to not let their negativity pull you down.
ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T
@Tatsumi you think that works?
Ah :(