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My best friend has been lying to me for years?

So, I was bored last night, and I decided to google my best friend. We’ve been best friends for seven years, and her birthday is August 3rd. But when I looked at her voter registration and a ticket from traffic court, it says her birthday is October 10th. And I’m pretty sure you can’t lie on your driver’s license since you have to show a birth certificate in order to get it here. I can also remember around when we met me asking her when her birthday was and her saying October, then giggling and saying “I’m just kidding, my birthday is August 3rd.” Why the crap has she been lying to me for so long? If she’s lied about that, what else has she lied about..?
sabrinarose
26-30, F
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If you celebrate her birthday on 3rd August with her and her family. Why don't you notice what she does in October? If you were close to her you could have recognised. However sometimes it happens that actually date of birth differs but can't say anymore in such situations. You should be ok with this because it's only a date not the character of that person.
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@sabrinarose you know her since 7 years. But you googled about her because you were bored. You should know the correct fact or information before making friends. Next time remember that. In this case if she is a good person other then birthday stuff. Just talk her casual. Be a friend untill you know more hidden things.
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sabrinarose · 26-30, F
I believe she is a good person. I’m just skeptical because now I think she could be hiding things.@SW-User
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@sabrinarose it's ok. Things happen. Don't just her because of just her birthday. Try to know her better. In future you will always be careful about such facts. Hope you have a good day 😊
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Ian123 · 61-69, M
Not sure why she should lie about her birthday, stay friends but be wary. If it happens again you will have to ask her
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dale74 · M
There could still be many other explanations if he's a good friend and she's there when you need her who cares winter birthday is did she just finished celebrating her birthday or is she getting ready to celebrate it next month
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sabrinarose · 26-30, F
True, but why not correct me?@dale74
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dale74 · M
@sabrinarose because now that day is special between the two of you that's the day you always celebrate her birthday and that's something only you and her have
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sabrinarose · 26-30, F
While I think that is a sweet thing, I also don’t get why she couldn’t have told me when her real birthday was and then we still could’ve celebrated whenever she wanted.@dale74
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Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
That is a strange thing to lie about...I would wonder the same as you, what else has she lied about!??
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dale74 · M
Could have been a situation like I will have about my birthday every single month I get a birthday of the month dinner at a local restaurant sent to a different email account every month I go in there and have me a $15 meal once a month and that day is my birthday.
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EugenieLaBorgia · F
I'm assuming she became your best friend because of the qualities she possessed and demonstrated to you rather than her validated birth certificate details.
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sabrinarose · 26-30, F
Again, I really don’t care when her birthday is. I’m angry that she lied about it. It makes me wonder if she’s hiding anything f else.@EugenieLaBorgia
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EugenieLaBorgia · F
@sabrinarose Has she been a good friend to you so far?
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sabrinarose · 26-30, F
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dale74 · M
Could be many many different reasons is your friend natural Born US citizen because people in other countries a lot of time their paperwork is not correct
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sabrinarose · 26-30, F
Yes, she was born in the US. @dale74
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SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
The first thing that comes to my mind is maybe something traumatic happened to her that she associates with her real birth date.

Maybe tell her exactly what you just told us?
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MarkPaul · 26-30, M
You don't seem like a very good friend.
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MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@sabrinarose Not friends... I wouldn't. It demonstrates distrust, disloyalty, and lack of self-discipline.
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SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
@sabrinarose MarkPaul lives to criticize people. Don’t worry about him.
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Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
I’ve done that when I’m bored, always curious to see what comes up. @sabrinarose]
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Chocolateboywonder · M
That’s strange as hell. I’m
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SW-User
She’s an assassin
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