why is it so hurtful when someone doe not want to to have a child?

why is it so hurtful when your mom or someone doe not want to to have a child?
My mom does not want me to have a child now even though I do not want to have a child it hurts me that she does not want me to have a child now my dad is the opposite he wants me to have a child more than anything. she just thinks that I do not deserve to be a parent, that I dont have the skills to teach and raise a kid. I dont understand why i am so upset with that if I do not want to have a child.

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Mattie0005 · 56-60, F

Awwwww, honey. Of course you're hurt by your mom. I don't know your situation, nor your age. I'm a mom of a 29 year old son. As a mom, to say he doesn't deserve a child is beyond mean, and borderline abusive. I know it's difficult but you MUST ignore your mother's words and follow your own heart. I wish you all the best...

Girlyfriendcollecting · F

@Mattie0005 thank you yea it is terribly hurtful. She claims i over react on everything. i need that medication that makes me stop feeling this that some depressed people get where they don't have emotions about anything. I really want to love my mom, i dont understand why i cant get thoes feelings for telling myself those words. 🥺

Mattie0005 · 56-60, F

@Girlyfriendcollecting No! You do not want to not feel anything. I tried it years ago, stuffed everything down with pills. DON"T Do IT! I too, had a mother from hell. I left home at 17. You are 24; be your own person. NEVER, EVER let another, even your supposed "mother" dictate how you feel about anything and everything.