How do you deal with a friend who’s kids are out of control.

I love my friend.
She’s overwhelmed.

But her kids are out of control and clearly she’s frustrated about it. She asks for advice but then shoots it all down immediately by making excuses as to why she can’t do things one way or another.

(Followup to this story - https://similarworlds.com/2-Community/2767285-What-is-wrong-with-her-I-mean-she-chose-to-have-3 )

The three year old pissed on me today at the pool. 😡🤬🤬

More on that in the next story.

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SW-User

At this point, I would just let her deal with the problems herself and not worry about it. Not much you can do if she doesn't follow your advice anyway.
And did the kid get in trouble for doing that to you? She should at the very least not be allowing that kind of behaviour.

KaysHealingPath · 36-40, F

@SW-User nope. She’s defending it by saying “he’s just a baby”

No
Uh uh he’s not a baby he’s 3 and it was intentional.

Im seriously starting to dread hanging with her when she’s with her kids now.

Adult only outings going forward.