I dont know what to do

I have this friend who I have been friends with for about four years. In the last year she has changed she is no longer optimistic but rather constantly depressed and I listened to her and try to be their for her but its becoming a burden because she doesn't get my advice and she never really wants to talk or hangout unless its about her being depressed for being alone and not being married at age 30 or whatever, I am 30 too but im not constantly bringing ppl down and try to be optimistic. Should I let her go or continue to support her??? I just feel like are relationship has been one sided for a while and try to tell her but she continues to do same thing.

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JaneCas · 26-30, F

I have its the same thing that shes depressed because shes alone and wants to find love, I feel the same way to sometimes but I don't let it rule my life waiting for a man to make me happy like she does.

RadiantRuby

@JaneCas Please don't abandon her in this time of need! Just do fun things with her. Also try to set her up on dates if you know any guys. I remember years ago wanting to just be in a relationship but that led to a lot of pain. People should learn how to appreciate themselves!

JaneCas · 26-30, F

@RadiantRuby I try to o fun things with her but she never wants to go out and she makes excuses. I am only going to do what I can and not stress myself over her =.

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

@JaneCas She needs to find a marriage broker or a dating service for marriage minded people. Arranged marriages have about the same rate of success as marriages by personal choice. Being in love is one of the worst reasons to get married, especially for a lonely and slightly desperate woman. There are lonely men out there who also would like to find a mate.