Do you ever think that whoever text fisrt after a really huge fight is the loser?

There aren't any "winners" when good friends or couples fight...everyone involved loses.

No its the person who cares that will reach out. I may get mad as hell but I still love who I love.

No. I would consider them the better person and if it wasn't me I would be ashamed.

Whoever says "whatever" first loses.

No, that's childish.

I'd say unless they are continuing on,they are the bigger person.

Wow, thanks for BA

No