Why stay in the friend zone? I just don't get it.

OK so I have a friend and she has been hurt so many times but yet she comes to me and saying, I'm the best friend as I listen, I told her that I would date her, but she said "No. She just likes me as a friend." It's much easier to walk away and have no friends at all but that would make me selfish, but I am tired of this, keeps hurting because of her boyfriends, when it's good she leaves me alone, when it's bad she can't leave me alone. I just feel used and it hurts me.

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Jouskan47

Then distance yourself. Or re-establish what the boundries of your relationship is. If you feel uaed, then respond accordingly.

If you feel you want her to be a part of your life as more than just a friend, then I am happy for you. However, if she tends to use you to comfort herself, the relationship (if I can say that) might be founded on something ratger precarious.

I wish you luck

Mal42 · 46-50, M

@Jouskan47 Thank you, that's really common sense.