What does it mean when....

@tenente Used to be friends but they hurt me badly when they distanced themselves at a time when I really needed their support. Felt their apology was insincere and that they are keeping a big secret from me and so things are still strained with us. I have kept a distance but been polite at the same time.

@Jenni855 it's a passive aggressive intimidation tactic - they want you to feel insecure, and, take a powerful position over you.