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Not a question. I am interested in your thoughts and feelings about what a friend of mine told me to do last week.

He was visiting here the day before Thanksgiving, and had..."an episode" of some kind. He passed out after I got him onto my office chair, I rolled him (on the chair) over to the bed, and I had to lift him onto the bed. I hurt my back pretty badly. He lost control of himself, and had no memory at all of my moving him.

I thought about calling 911, but I didn't because I knew my friend would be really angry.

He assured me later that he would have been very angry if I had called 911, and that he never would have forgiven me. He said if it ever happens again, he is a DNR but he wears no bracelet advising EMTs that he is a DNR.

I have begun to worry about my legal liability. Another friend told me that it may have been a TIA or small stroke.

If my friend had died, I believe I might have been legally liable for not dialing 911 but I don't know for sure. And I am not authorized to convey any sort of DNR information to the EMTs if such a thing should happen again.

I am interested in hearing your thoughts.
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uncalled4 · 56-60, M
What kind of asshole would put you in a position like that??
4meAndyou · F
@uncalled4 Well, he has a nickname. I call him MAF, short for "My Annoying Friend". And he can be a huge ahole at times. In his defense, I should say I have known him for 7 years and nothing like this has ever happened before. I don't think he planned it.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@4meAndyou Puzzling. I take it on faith that he has other redeeming qualities.
4meAndyou · F
@uncalled4 He has a good heart, and he helps me with all the fix it jobs and assemblies I don't know how to do. He brings me food all the time, even when I don't need it, and he loves my cat (unrequited).
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@4meAndyou it's probably best that you avoid legal trouble, though. As a musician who works in broadcasting, I have a bumper crop of dysfunction, so although he may be essentially a positive presence, there's no reason to leave you holding the bag.