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Not a question. I am interested in your thoughts and feelings about what a friend of mine told me to do last week.

He was visiting here the day before Thanksgiving, and had..."an episode" of some kind. He passed out after I got him onto my office chair, I rolled him (on the chair) over to the bed, and I had to lift him onto the bed. I hurt my back pretty badly. He lost control of himself, and had no memory at all of my moving him.

I thought about calling 911, but I didn't because I knew my friend would be really angry.

He assured me later that he would have been very angry if I had called 911, and that he never would have forgiven me. He said if it ever happens again, he is a DNR but he wears no bracelet advising EMTs that he is a DNR.

I have begun to worry about my legal liability. Another friend told me that it may have been a TIA or small stroke.

If my friend had died, I believe I might have been legally liable for not dialing 911 but I don't know for sure. And I am not authorized to convey any sort of DNR information to the EMTs if such a thing should happen again.

I am interested in hearing your thoughts.
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Salix75 · 46-50, F
If it were me, I'd call 911. I'd rather risk losing a friendship than risk someone losing their life or further injury.

if he's that adamant about what should/should not be done, then he should get smart about it and wear a bracelet so folks around him know what's happening (epileptic seizure? narcolepsy? etc) and so EMT know his situation.
4meAndyou · F
@Salix75 We don't know what happened to him for sure. He hasn't been to a doctor. I am definitely calling 911 if it happens again, and I will get him a medical alert bracelet for Christmas (and then I will have to listen to him yell at me about it). He is not well known for being smart and it is unlikely that he will "get smart". He is (sometimes) a mechanical genius, but he doesn't read very well and doesn't understand what he reads.