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How do you stop being angry over a "friend" who no longer cares about you?

...even after you trusted them and opened up to them.
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SW-User
I honestly don't know, but I do know that person isn't worth the time or energy that we've wasted on them so far. The sooner we cut them loose, the better it will be.Easier said than done, I know. sorry.:(
SW-User
@LittleRee I'm sorry my advice couldn't be more definitive, and helpful. I'm sure I didn't tell you anything you didn't already know, but sometimes I feel, just by saying anything at all, it can help to make someone feel less alone with their dilemma. I know it works for me.
LittleRee · 26-30, F
@SW-User Don't be sorry :) Your reply was comforting! It truly does help to know people understand how hard these situations can be.
SW-User
@LittleRee Then I won't be sorry.;) I'll be glad to help in any way I can.:)
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
You can be angry if you want !
If you get to know somebody THAT well you're prepared to share things you wouldn't normally. It feels like a betrayal of trust if things don't work out as you'd hoped.
LittleRee · 26-30, F
@Picklebobble2 Yeah I am just tired of caring about it because I know they wont change even if I tell them how I feel- I've already tried :( Anyways thanks for the reply :)
SW-User
Seeing your self-worth is paramount. You know you deserve better. You know you cannot be a doormat. Self-respect comes first, before we can respect others. Past attachments need not be considered. Charge it to experience.
Madelenie · 26-30, F
Idk, I am having this "friend" right now. She didn't even tell me happy birthday when she knew exactly when was it. It infuriate me even more...
LittleRee · 26-30, F
@Madelenie Aw :( in my case, I introduced them to a friend and trusted them with that but instead I got ditched/replaced. I am sorry to hear how much your friend has hurt you :'(
Madelenie · 26-30, F
@LittleRee Omg... I'm sorry to hear that... I kinda have experienced that before... I-I... i don't know what to say to know you feel better.. but i do feel you... YOU WILL FIND A BFF ONE DAY!!!!!!*hugs* 😢😢
Maiya · F
You just do... You don't need to forgive them just forget that you ever had a connection with them.. They're not even worth your thoughts let alone your anger.
FarAway · 56-60, F
I don't know, I am still upset with him its been a while now and ww still dont talk
LittleRee · 26-30, F
@FarAway aw :( sorry to hear that
FarAway · 56-60, F
@LittleRee Thank you I hope he is happier now
Cut all ties with this person, and give yourself the time to move on with your life without them.
LittleRee · 26-30, F
@ItsAllAboutLove Thank you for the advice :)
SW-User
let me know when you figure that out
hunkalove · 70-79, M
I get my friends Mad Dog, Killer, and Pinky to have a little talk with them.
SW-User
Dont have an ex friend be constantly be rude to you and make you out to be things because they turned delusional
SINAI · T
Let it all out.
I pretend they're dead.
Starkizzed21 · 31-35, F
I must've deceived myself, and I'm still angry
SW-User
Ignore. ignore. Ignore
bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M
You don't.. You wish death and pain on them everyday...... Or.... Maybe that's just me.. ʕ ᵔᴥᵔʔ
bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M
@FarAway Not if you've known them for 11 years and they randomly decide to steal £120 from you.
LittleRee · 26-30, F
@bearinthebigbluehouse Aw :( sorry to hear that happened to you!
bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M
@LittleRee You and me both, dawg. ┬┴┬┴┤•ᴥ•ʔ/🍯
SW-User
spank them.
tenente · 36-40, M
i confront this "friend" calmly and maturely WITH TWO SWORDS DRAWN!!!

 
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