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How do you stop being angry over a "friend" who no longer cares about you?

...even after you trusted them and opened up to them.
SW-User
I honestly don't know, but I do know that person isn't worth the time or energy that we've wasted on them so far. The sooner we cut them loose, the better it will be.Easier said than done, I know. sorry.:(
SW-User
@LittleRee I'm sorry my advice couldn't be more definitive, and helpful. I'm sure I didn't tell you anything you didn't already know, but sometimes I feel, just by saying anything at all, it can help to make someone feel less alone with their dilemma. I know it works for me.
LittleRee · 26-30, F
@SW-User Don't be sorry :) Your reply was comforting! It truly does help to know people understand how hard these situations can be.
SW-User
@LittleRee Then I won't be sorry.;) I'll be glad to help in any way I can.:)
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
You can be angry if you want !
If you get to know somebody THAT well you're prepared to share things you wouldn't normally. It feels like a betrayal of trust if things don't work out as you'd hoped.
LittleRee · 26-30, F
@Picklebobble2 Yeah I am just tired of caring about it because I know they wont change even if I tell them how I feel- I've already tried :( Anyways thanks for the reply :)
I pretend they're dead.
bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M
You don't.. You wish death and pain on them everyday...... Or.... Maybe that's just me.. ʕ ᵔᴥᵔʔ
bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M
@FarAway Not if you've known them for 11 years and they randomly decide to steal £120 from you.
LittleRee · 26-30, F
@bearinthebigbluehouse Aw :( sorry to hear that happened to you!
bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M
@LittleRee You and me both, dawg. ┬┴┬┴┤•ᴥ•ʔ/🍯
Madelenie · 26-30, F
Idk, I am having this "friend" right now. She didn't even tell me happy birthday when she knew exactly when was it. It infuriate me even more...
LittleRee · 26-30, F
@Madelenie Aw :( in my case, I introduced them to a friend and trusted them with that but instead I got ditched/replaced. I am sorry to hear how much your friend has hurt you :'(
Madelenie · 26-30, F
@LittleRee Omg... I'm sorry to hear that... I kinda have experienced that before... I-I... i don't know what to say to know you feel better.. but i do feel you... YOU WILL FIND A BFF ONE DAY!!!!!!*hugs* 😢😢
SW-User
Seeing your self-worth is paramount. You know you deserve better. You know you cannot be a doormat. Self-respect comes first, before we can respect others. Past attachments need not be considered. Charge it to experience.
Maiya · F
You just do... You don't need to forgive them just forget that you ever had a connection with them.. They're not even worth your thoughts let alone your anger.
Cut all ties with this person, and give yourself the time to move on with your life without them.
LittleRee · 26-30, F
@ItsAllAboutLove Thank you for the advice :)
FarAway · 56-60, F
I don't know, I am still upset with him its been a while now and ww still dont talk
LittleRee · 26-30, F
@FarAway aw :( sorry to hear that
FarAway · 56-60, F
@LittleRee Thank you I hope he is happier now
SW-User
Dont have an ex friend be constantly be rude to you and make you out to be things because they turned delusional
hunkalove · 61-69, M
I get my friends Mad Dog, Killer, and Pinky to have a little talk with them.
Starkizzed21 · 31-35, F
I must've deceived myself, and I'm still angry
SW-User
let me know when you figure that out
SW-User
Ignore. ignore. Ignore
SINAI · T
Let it all out.
SW-User
spank them.
tenente · 100+, M
i confront this "friend" calmly and maturely WITH TWO SWORDS DRAWN!!!

 
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