How can I move on from people who have not been good to me?

and how I can still wish them happiness, despite all that they've done to me?

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It's been called "inner healing" .. I've actually had hundreds of hours in classes on that subject because I'm a chronic fuck up.

I hope my choice of words wasn't offensive to you. That was not my intention.

youngnconfused · 26-30, F

@puck61 they weren't! I appreciate your advice

puck61

I think LunadeLobos has said it best. I would only add that we often neglect forgiving ourselves because of a resentment towards others and we often neglect forgiving others because of a resentment we have towards ourselves. That may not be applicable for you, but it was for me. Sometimes negative reinforcement from key people in our lives makes us believe bad things about ourselves that aren't necessarily true, and we need to come to terms with that.

youngnconfused · 26-30, F

@puck61 This is very true as well, I thank you for taking the time out to tell me this!