PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
You can make new friends, just need to get out and about and start living. Go to places and do things that make you happy 😊
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
I think we can always pick up the pieces and rebuild our lives.
We all do mistakes and most things in life actually do not go our way.
You can always reset, build confidence and form new long lasting friends who do not desert you.
Hope you do find them.
Take care mate.
By the way, I like most of your songs 🙂
Wishing you better things.
We all do mistakes and most things in life actually do not go our way.
You can always reset, build confidence and form new long lasting friends who do not desert you.
Hope you do find them.
Take care mate.
By the way, I like most of your songs 🙂
Wishing you better things.
TheHammer · M
I don't think it was foolish my guy. That's just love and life.
I've fucked up so many times. Sometimes my fault. Sometimes I hooked up with the wrong crazy woman.
And I felt sorry for myself for a long time.
Then I admitted the times when I was a jerk and tried to figure out why I hooked up with those crazy women.
You pick yourself up, dust your shit off and hope you don't fuck up too bad next time.
Life is too short man..
I've fucked up so many times. Sometimes my fault. Sometimes I hooked up with the wrong crazy woman.
And I felt sorry for myself for a long time.
Then I admitted the times when I was a jerk and tried to figure out why I hooked up with those crazy women.
You pick yourself up, dust your shit off and hope you don't fuck up too bad next time.
Life is too short man..
I'm going to say something you may not want to hear ...
When your wife left you because she said you were controlling..I hope you took that as some time for introspection and try to see things fron her perspective. There are usually tell tale signs in a marriage when there's trouble. People don't just up and leave ...there are always signs and if not signs there needs to be conversations held with both present and willing to be honest..willing to work it out ...I don't know of that happened or not ...It's rare that it does .
When your wife left you because she said you were controlling..I hope you took that as some time for introspection and try to see things fron her perspective. There are usually tell tale signs in a marriage when there's trouble. People don't just up and leave ...there are always signs and if not signs there needs to be conversations held with both present and willing to be honest..willing to work it out ...I don't know of that happened or not ...It's rare that it does .
SleepingWithGhosts · 46-50, M
@cherny I appreciate you're honesty. We were both to blame for our marriage falling apart. I fully accept my part in that. I am still in the grieving process of it, but I am getting better everyday. I understand it. I just don't have any friends in real life, just here, and that was the point I was trying to make in my post, it just may not have came out right. I just really want and need friends in my life.
@SleepingWithGhosts I'm sorry you are struggling...I think the older we get the harder it is to maintain or make friendships
SleepingWithGhosts · 46-50, M
@cherny I agree.
Sounds like she had every reason to leave u
nonsensiclesnail · F
I’ve learned that the way to make friends is to find someplace to go, consistently, where you will interact with other people. That’s where the idea of doing hobbies to make friends has come about. But it can be the same coffee shop everyday. Game shops that hold event. Hiking clubs. You’ll get to know people that way. Hopefully. People don’t out and do things like they once did so it is much more difficult to meet people.








