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Avoidant people are bothering me again...

You cannot seriously talk to me every day for like three months and a time, and then pretend i don't exist four weeks, ignoring my messages, you can't even fucking write a one liner to let me know you're still alive to then just come back with "have a good day today or i hope your day is good. i was thinking about you and wanted to check in since i haven't in a bit" like fuck you, actually.
LIKE ACTUAL FUCKING BULLSHIT.
And like if I tell this bitch how fucking rude it is to ghost people like that and then come back like nothing happened, I'm gonna be told "well i'm very avoidant when i get stressed i just isolate because I don't know how behave around people" MF YOU'RE ALMOST 30 YEARS OLD and you can't even be stressed for 30 fuckass seconds to let people know you're going to be away, like actually get fucked.
Then they come at me with "you're so special to me that's why i get away from you when I get like this"
GO FUCK YOURSELF.
five fucking years of "friendship" btw and every few months is the same stupid shit.
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HoochieTheClown · 51-55, F
Yeah like @MethDozer mentioned, around age 25 or after, friendships become harder to maintain.

You have a point though, people have their phone on them every waking moment, one would think our friends or family could take a few seconds now and then to at least pretend we exist.

I think the real problem with communication today is that since it is so easy to stay in touch (having a phone in our pocket everywhere we go), people take things for granted.

The more available something becomes, the more disposable it becomes.

All that aside, unfortunately a lot of friendships eventually "run their course". It is not that anyone did anything, it just happens.
MethDozer · M
I dont get people who need the constent attention and validation. A real freindship is one thay doesnt diminsh after needed silence.

Not talking to someone for three mjnths really isnt that long of a time unless it is family or you are fucking. Life gets in the way after the age of 25
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MethDozer · M
@risanna alright, alright. I hesr you know. This adds a whole new dimension to the dynamic and I feel you now.
Fuck those types of people.
Nightwings · F
This is extremely annoying. I'm one of those people that do in fact isolate when stressed and I have NEVER done it without letting my friends know, and even when I do, I send a little occasional meme, cat video, whatever, from time to time, and they know I'm not gonna be into talking yet, and it just works. There's literally no reason for any drama. I feel like your friend is just using this as an excuse to be an ass, if I'm completely honest. /=

 
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