Stay or let go?

Do you think it’s better to have someone you care about in your life in the only way they can be, with secrets, not being fully open and honest, or would you let them go if you wanted transparency in the friendship?

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nowic2 · 61-69, M

I would seem to me that if someone has secrets in a relationship then they do not fully trust and respect their partner. That’s a red flag. You are entitled to have someone that gives themselves fully. Of course it depends on the level of the relationship and what each of you want from it. Only you two can decide that.
All the best