Did your friends disappear when your relationship broke down?

Yes mine did.
They wanted to know what happened.
Tried to convince me not to take him back.

But I noticed they stopped calling as much.

I don't think I've been down during this breakup I've been quite pragmatic. So this is weird for me.

Especially not seeing people like I used to.

Maybe my indifference is unsettling.

Maybe I should have been down just to make them feel useful. 🤷🏾

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FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F

I was pretty fortunate to have kept my pre relationship friends, so I really didn't lose the ones I care about. And a few of his ended up taking my side too, so there was that.

People take sides, sadly.

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@FoxyGoddess they weren't even his friends that's why it's so odd.
But I have had a lot of ups and downs in my life. Maybe it's become a broken record for them.
I thought they understood the circumstances but I'm the common dominator so I have to factor that in.

I'm glad you had people during that period of time