my boyfriend is mad at me for this

idk who’s in the wrong. so he told me he’s going for a pint with his friend matt. and i said “i thought u and matt weren’t friends anymore” because matt was at a house party once, and on the way home he said “i should have raped that girl” my boyfriend fell out with him for it, so did two of his other friends.

so now clearly they’ve made up since they are going to the pub together. and after i said “i thought u and matt weren’t friends anymore” he said “we are okay now” and i replied saying “ew” and he said “what do u mean ew? i could say the same about ur friend abbie” and i said “abbie doesn’t talk about raping people” and he got mad at me and said sarcastically “im sure abbie has never made a mistake whilst drunk and said something out of order, im sure she’s such an angel” and then he said “u can leave me alone today”

idk if it’s just me but i feel like regretting not raping a girl isn’t a thing people say when drunk

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Jonjdw · 51-55, M

If he want to let go what Matt said ok that fine Matt was drunk I guess. But it also sounds like he doesn’t care about what you think and does not want to talk about it. But maybe he will. Relationship needs to talk and talk about their feelings and who they are. But you are young and I assume so with he.

Katiecunn12 · 18-21, F

@Jonjdw he’s almost 24

Jonjdw · 51-55, M

@Katiecunn12 still young. If he want a good relationship with you, he’s gonna have to talk about his feelings. But that could be hard to do for people to. But it has to be done for a good relationship.