If a woman friend zones you, it doesn't mean she's a scheming, manipulative sociopath...

As woman, there's nothing more disgusting than realizing a man only wants to talk to you if sex will eventually be involved. He never wanted to be your friend, and he'll trash every wonderful moment you shared just because it wasn't leading to romance. The only purpose of him opening up was for you to be his, and then he acts like you were dishonest and scheming.

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Fieldmaster · 46-50, M

Imagine the society, only bases on sexual transation, we couldnt trust anyone. Our daughter, our sisters, our mothers, loved ones, friends ans family, no one in the society will ever be safe per say. It is utterly disgusting. I was just thinking about this yesterday in relation to SW in general.

ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

@Fieldmaster it's slowly moving in that direction and every time I see men going on about how awful women are because we don't want a relationship with them, I wonder how much they actually value us as people and part of society aside from our bodies.

Magenta · F

@Fieldmaster I also believe it is becoming that way. It's all about bodies / nudity / sex.

Fieldmaster · 46-50, M

@ScreamingFox This is so unfortunate.

FoxyQueen · 51-55, F

@Fieldmaster Transactional but often only one way and generally to the man's benefit. It is one of the reasons I have left the dating scene. I'm tired of being an object for transactions. I get that when you keep things sanitary of emotions, you don't have risk being hurt, but there are men's sexual aids that work just as well so you never have to use a person for your needs. I don't care if it doesn't "feel the same". Neither does sex with someone who has no emotions.

It's tiring. It also makes it hard not to assume that the moment a man messages me he isn't just trawling for sex. And I hate having that immediate thought every time.