Question, should I befriend my husband cousin?

It's a cousin from his father side of the family
I really like her (as a friend of course) and wants to be her friend and we get along well but the only reason I don't really tried being her friend is because the relationship they have with my mother-in-law is so so, sometimes good and sometimes not so good.

For me I have a good relationship with my mom in-law and I don't want to ruined that.
Do you think becoming her friend would ruined it?

People from my husband family already knows we get along well but I keep my distance because I'm scared of the future 😔
I really want to be her friend though

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Teslin · M

If being a friend with someone, anyone, is a problem with your MIL, then she has the problem.
If you like her and get along, go for it

Dontunderestimateme · 22-25, FNew

@Teslin it's not a problem like that but it's more of like my mother in-law and her mother are married into the same family and sometimes I'd say there's misunderstanding between them and they would get mad at each other lol 😅 but this doesn't have anything to do with the cousin i guess

Teslin · M

@Dontunderestimateme Exactly, you hit the nail on the head. It has nothing to do with you.