I have a coworker I'd like to be friends with outside of work

But she's got a hubs, kid, etc. Not sure she'd even have time to hang out. 😔 I rarely meet people I feel really comfortable with, but I do feel instantly comfortable with her. Maybe I'll work up the nerve to ask if she wants to hang out outside of work one day. I feel intrusive taking time away from her hubs and kid though, which is what's holding me back.

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Sazzio · 36-40, M

I have a friend in your position. Not sure about your feelings but he gets jealous seeing married people / partner with kids. He is single, mentally ill and with parents (which explains him going mental). I tell him to see a therapist which he did.

I feel he is a big drag in my life only cause of his mental illness. Our other mate's the same but he is down to Earth n doesn't talk about his feelings 24/7 I look fwd seeing him, always.

I wanna hear good stuff not this "Oh! Am feeling down" over nothing crap.