I just feel like crap

It’s been bothering me and I’m just trying to get over it. I was trying to be nice and hang out with a guy I didn’t really care to be around. I felt bad his friends ditch him. He spent a lot of money so I said Yeah we can hang. I had plans and I canceled them. He complained about everything little thing. When there wasn’t any left to complain about he talked badly about his mom. I think I started from here to get depressed. The next day when we started to hangout again it’s like he didn’t want to do anything. I mentioned a lot of ideas and places and it was like talking to a Debbie Downer. I just went off on him. And he gave me this whole speech about how I’m such a horrible friend. So I left. I just feel upset because I really tried to be a really good friend. I did not have to do any of this

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YoMomma ·

Yeah that was a mistake..

TheeRoyalBee · 31-35, F

@YoMomma it sure was. I just hope I remember this lesson.

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TheeRoyalBee · 31-35, F

@YoMomma what benefit would I get from spending time with him not doing anything? Are you saying I would beg him to get a free meal? lol. His friends ditched him. I was sincerely trying to better his day. I wouldn’t have mind to like I said to someone else- to go for a walk in the park and hang out. Go to free museums I don’t care, go to the free pool. I know there’s some girls that use people but I really don’t need to do that. I would rather work uber eat and make some quick money than to use a guy which is dangerous.. and for all things for food lol. 😂 That’s sad.

TheeRoyalBee · 31-35, F

I was hesitant to hang with him because the last time he was a Debbie downer. Complains a lot

YoMomma ·

@TheeRoyalBee lunch dates 😅 yeah sometimes people just cant be helped or at least it’s harder to help them than.. one ever imagines .. you can either try harder or give up 😅

TheeRoyalBee · 31-35, F

@YoMomma lunch dates😄 It’s sad. I can do a couple uber eats if I was that desperate and enjoy a 5 star restaurant by myself in PEACE at the bar. And not have to worry about a guy who expects something afterwards. My parents taught me well and I’m not to brag but I have enough. When people mention me potentially using him it doesn’t faze me. I don’t get offended or mad because I know.

YoMomma ·

@TheeRoyalBee that’s good.. there’s some crazy people out there 😅 i have my own crazy tho..

TheeRoyalBee · 31-35, F

@YoMomma there are some very crazy people out here. I stop dating a while ago because it’s insane. Men and women are crazy. It’s about time to have references and background checks lol. I’m glad you have your own too 🥂

YoMomma ·

@TheeRoyalBee yeah dating is annoying anyway even if people weren't crazy there’s still other issues/conflicts .. the more i learn about crazy dating and relationship issues the more i think arranged pre planed marriages are practical because they examine every aspect of the person every which way before even considering them 😅 pre screened i guess 😅

TheeRoyalBee · 31-35, F

@YoMomma I would be scared, I like the idea of it but the men in my culture are not to marry. The person my dad would pick is lazy unfortunately one of the best options. My brother would pick his best friend we have very different views and finance, very opposite. The guy I would chose is a needle in the haystack. He works just as hard as me have a lot of similar main beliefs, I would respect him enough to take the man lead. But he’s married 😂 . If we lived in those times, With all the choice in my community the moms and dads would be fighting over him. Crap I would be a 3rd, 6th wife to him before I married someone in my community lol 😂

YoMomma ·

@TheeRoyalBee my mom and dad wanted me to marry someone and i ran away instead.. told them i’d rather marry the garbage man 😅 (he was cute whoever he was) 😅

TheeRoyalBee · 31-35, F

@YoMomma 🤣🤣🤣 smart.
Do you live where there is arranged marriages?

YoMomma ·

@TheeRoyalBee no i live in redneck teritory of the deep south 😅

TheeRoyalBee · 31-35, F

@YoMomma oh ohhh oh lol 😂 yeah and those guys are probably aggressive when they want you

YoMomma ·

@TheeRoyalBee i wouldn't know.. my dad homeschooled us all so we never met them 😅

TheeRoyalBee · 31-35, F

@YoMomma ohhhhh that’s not good
Well I’m glad it didn’t happen

YoMomma ·

@TheeRoyalBee anyway all the guys i knew were super shy 😅

TheeRoyalBee · 31-35, F

@YoMomma Good. I wish guys were more shy lol